I have a friend. (I know… shocking!)

Her name is Mandy. I would give you the full name, but she doesn’t like it when I use her middle name. How we became friends is a long, twisted weird story. But it happened. And though life changes and relationships end and friendships wither up and blow away, she and I have laughed and cried and laughed some more through it all. I have to say she is one of my favorite people to walk this planet. There is nothing about her I would change, and there is nothing about her I don’t love completely!
Mandy and I go through spurts of hanging out and sometimes we look up and realize it’s been 6 months since we have seen each other. Last year we caught up on the phone and realized we hadn’t seen each other in a long time. It was July, I think, and we both grabbed our calendars and marked Sept 5th on the calendar for the 1st annual M&M Day!… It was our first free weekend available. September 5th arrived, and without any true plans, we just jumped in the car and took off. We ended up eating “burrocos” and drinking Margaritas. Then we hit up Wal-Mart for candy (um… m&m’s of course!), beer and arts & crafts. We sat in the parking lot of Wal-Mart and drank our beer, made amazing bracelets and visors and laughed our asses off. We finished the night off with the 1st Bama football game of the season. and we even got Mandy to wear crimson!
Immediately a tradition was born. When I bought my new 2010 planner, one of the 1st things to go in it was September 4th, 2010, 2nd annual M&M Day. There was no question that our day would be full of fun, laughter and football. I expected to have something big planned for the day. Considering I had 365 days to plan it, it should have been simple. Instead, we made no plans until the day rolled around.
We met for “burrocos” and margaritas again.



We documented each moment with my camera, iphone and kept the facebook folks up to date with our whereabouts. We went shopping at Piggly Wiggly this time for booze and snacks. All the while we laughed and caught up and laughed some more. People in the Pig thought we were crazy… and the are pretty much right.

Saturday was the most beautiful day we have had here in the Ham in months and months. The high was 85. There was a fantastic breeze. It couldn’t have been a better day. After eating, and shopping, we loaded up with a couple of beers and a blanket and went and sat in the park for over an hour. Even though there was a football game to be watched, we seriously considered staying right there on that blanket til the sun went down. The weather was really that amazing. But we sucked it up and made it in time for kick off.
We spent about 20 minutes trying to get a picture of us together in the park. This basically turned into us laughing like damn hyenas, and taking some pretty funny pictures. For some reason I couldn’t get the camera aimed right to get us both in the picture. So I have quite a few of half of Mandy’s face and all of my big head. After a little bit of practice, and some time to quit laughing, this one turned out and is one of my favorites from the day.

This is the best Iphone reminder I have had so far!

And a perfect representation of what this day was all about… relaxing!

We already have big plans for M&M day 2011. Most likely we will fail at those plans and end up eating mexican and drinking beer. I am ok with that!
-m